There are many ways to mend a broken heart. Some will work better for you than others. You'll need to find the one method that works best for you because of your interests, personality, or lifestyle.
Find a cause. There's nothing like a worthy cause to occupy your mind and your time. This is why it's such an effective method for getting over and recovering from a broken heart. If you fill your every spare moment with thoughts and actions dedicated to helping your cause (children's hospital, favorite charity, habitat for humanity, and countless other worthy causes) you'll find less of your time is devoted to thinking about your broken heart or worrying about what your ex is doing, who your ex is with, and why your ex left.
Become your own cause. If there isn't a cause out there that really interests you become your own project. What area of your life can you improve? Would you like to go back to school? How about traveling to see the world? Want to get into shape? Learn a new skill? You can do all of these things now without worry over what your ex will think. Do them for you.
Start dating again. Love is a great healer. It makes sense that it is also one of the more effective ways to mend a broken heart. Allow yourself to love again and you'll enjoy many rewards. Avoid rebound relationships (relationships that are intense but brief because they go too far too fast) but open your heart so that you can find love again when you're ready.
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