4 Reasons this is the Best Way: Breaking up with a Married Man

It's always sad, on some level to see a relationship ends. There are many reasons that calling things off with some men really is the best way. Breaking up with a married man is the only healthy choice in most relationships of this nature. Here are four reasons why.

This relationship can never be truly equal. No matter how many lies you tell to try to convince yourself that this is an equal relationship or that you're holding all the cards it doesn't change the fact that he's getting much more from this than you are. Relationships are about give and take. He's doing all the taking and you're doing all the giving. More importantly, the relationship can't really go anywhere as long as he remains married to someone else.

You deserve better. You may not be convinced of this just yet but you do. You are a beautiful, brilliant, talented woman who has a world of options open to you. Don't sell yourself short by thinking the best you can do is half the heart (if that much) of a man that has promised to love, honor, and cherish another woman. You'll never be first to him as long as he's married and you really do deserve to be numero uno to the man you've given your heart to.

Fewer bonding experiences are available to you as a couple. Healthy relationships bond and grow over time. You really don't have a wide range of options open to you for bonding, growing together, and making plans for a future together. He has planned his future with someone else and you have no place in that pretty little picture. Chances are that no matter how much he tries to convince you otherwise he has no intention of leaving his wife for you.

Guilt. You might be telling yourself that it isn't your fault. You might even try to blame her for his indiscretions. He might even blame her for his indiscretions. The problem is after he leaves and when it's just you looking in the mirror. It's harder to hide from your own disapproval and very difficult to live with. It may even take some time after you've gone through the best way of breaking up with a married man for you to stop feeling so guilty but removing the weight will be like gaining a new lease on life.